Is She Cheating On Facebook?

Lately, this ultra popular social network, is becoming more and more mentioned in the court rooms. I know you're probably thinking in lines of author violation rights or other legal technicalities, but you're wrong. Facebook gets mentioned in about 20% of divorce cases. That's a pretty big number and it's increasing day by day.

I must admit I see the appeal, it's so much easier to cheat on-line. It only takes a few seconds to find your ex and click +add friend. And to be truthful, it also takes a lot less guts then to pick up the phone and dial. Especially if it's a girl that broke your heart years ago. Now you two can just starts chatting again like nothing happened. And agree to meet for a casual coffee. Or something else.

The same goes for your (ex) girlfriend. Lot of her ex boyfriends/crushes are on there adding her as friend. With more then 500 million active users, it's impossible to avoid threats to your relationship. The question is, is Facebook really a threat to your relationship? When are you allowed to panic?

Panic alert level 1. She's not too social (or is rarely in an opportunity to cheat)

This is not to say that your girlfriend is not socially skilled, but she might just be a little shy or she in such line of work where she doesn't have a chance to meet a lot of people. To her, Facebook may become a perfect opportunity to meet a lot of new people (or old crushes) and connect with. Two most common cheating partners are or work colleagues or ex lovers. Facebook makes it super easy for shy people to connect with both of them.

Panic alert level 2. She's poking away

If you're not familiar with Facebook terminology, pokes are defined as "POKES - which allows users to send a virtual "poke" to each other (a notification then tells a user that they have been poked)" by Wikipedia. If you're still wondering what the hell poking is used for, the only thing I can come up with is playful flirting. If you notice your girlfriend poking cute guys (I don't know how you'll define if they are cute... just ask your friends), ask her what it's all about. Oh and if she tells you the purpose of poking, other then flirting, please e-mail me and let me know.

Panic alert level 3. Her friend list is really her fan club.

If she's having a lot of friends who are either her exes or "some guy" she met when going out, you have a reason to fear. It can only be the fact that she's trying to fill up her confidence level and feel attractive, but it's not really fair to you. In case you don't have a fan club your self. If you do, shut up and go delete those girls you collected. Afterwards find out if your girlfriend is feeling attractive around you. Maybe she's just in need of attention. Take her on a date, flirt with her. You might just even try and poke her.

Panic alert level 4. She spend an hour, or more, a day on Facebook

You're finally home and you have a chance to be together and she's constantly giggling on Facebook. Or it might already be 2am you're waiting for her in bed and she's still on  the computer. If you see her virtual social life getting out of hand you might try to talk to her but she probably won't react good. She'll get defensive and accuse you of being insecure. There is also a trick you can use - take her out more often, take her on a trip. If you two are living together it may be a great change of pace to start going out a lot more often.

Panic alert level 5. She's on Facebook even when you two are out (mobile)

This is really the final alert level. If you tried to take her out or on a trip and she can't put Facebook down (either mobile or she just won't go with you), it's over. Let her go. She might already be cheating on you or just meeting new people but enough is enough. She obviously has no interest in you. Few weeks ago I was having dinner with a friend and the moment we sat down she pulled out her phone and got upset she didn't get a replay on her Facebook message. It felt pretty bad and it's just a friend we're talking about. I can only imagine what it would feel like if that happened on a date. So put your foot down, at this point it either you or Facebook.

Catastrophe - she picks Facebook over you

It doesn't matter if she cheating or not, the fact that Facebook account is more important then your relationship is a catastrophe. Take a week and get over her, you're better off anyway, believe me.

Oh and delete her form your friend list, you don't want to see what's going to go on after you're out of the picture. You'll just stalk her account and t

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